Although all men are unique and think differently, they have a somewhat common perception about successful women. They feel insecure and threatened in the presence of more successful female counterparts. Unless you are confident of yourself and quite successful in your own sphere of life, you should not consider dating a successful woman; because like most other men, you might also possibly end up feeling threatened and insecure and this would ruin your relationship.
When dating a successful woman, the key to a successful relationship is to stop being intimidated by her success and treat her success as yet another positive attribute in her personality. Remember, she is just like any other ordinary female, with an extraordinary spirit to fight against all odds and prove her mettle. So, she deserves to be loved even more than any ordinary woman. Once you understand this fact, your outlook towards successful women is bound to undergo a change and you may even contemplate dating a successful woman.
Here are 5 highly effective tips to help you while dating a successful woman.
1. Try to know the real her: Now that you are dating a successful woman, you need to stop being in awe of her success. Treat her like a normal woman and get to know her personal likes, dislikes, tastes, preferences, aspirations, dreams, etc. Urge her to speak about her childhood and her past journey through life and get to know her real self – her insecurities, her sorrows, share her happy moments with her and make an effort to get to know her better.
2. Respect her achievements – Encourage her to tell you about her achievements – she is like any other woman who loves to tell her husband how successfully she baked her first ever chocolate cake, about the living room painting that she made, or about the terrace garden she created. Let her know that you respect her achievements and that you would back her to achieve many more laurels.
3. Understand her career needs: She would not have been successful had she not gone out of the way and worked very hard to achieve the success. So, if you are dating a successful woman, let her know that you understand the demanding nature of her job and that whatever little time she is able to spend with you, you want it to be quality time, with the two of you doing things (that you both love) together and enjoying each other’s company.
4. Be a man and extend your support whenever she needs it: If you are dating a successful woman, you know that the lady will be capable of handling most of the difficult situations herself. Don’t take her for granted and load her with all the responsibilities. Be a man and take your stand at times of crisis. Let her know that you are with her. It can make a great deal of difference if you let her know that if she needs you, you are always available for assisting and helping her out in any way. She will definitely appreciate and adore this quality in you.
5. Take an equal role in decision making: Although she is a successful woman, she must not feel as if she is left alone, with no cushion to fall back on. Do not leave all the major decision making headaches to her. Be assertive and take a proactive role in decision making so that she realizes the subtle difference in her roles in professional and personal life. She is going to love your companionship and the joint decisions that you take.
Dating a successful woman is not easy, but it you follow these tips, you will soon see your dating relationship blooming into a beautiful and strong life-long relationship.
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